18 October 2024

Maria Popova is absolutely my GOAT - my greatest writer of all time.

For many years now, whenever I need ... 
- to make sense of things in my life, I turn to her writing.
- to find meaning in what I was experiencing, I turn to her writing.
- to find solitude, I turn to her writing.
- to find quiet joy, I turn to her writing.
- to feel inspired, I turn to her writing.
- to have wisdom in my life, I turn to her writing.

This passage below is liberally plagiarised from Maria's latest "The Universe in Verse Book" where she so eloquently compared poetry and science....  https://www.themarginalian.org/the-universe-in-verse/   
I found the comparison exquisitely similar to how I feel about science and religion, hence my humble re-write in this context...

In our human journey, we seek truth and meaning amidst the interplay of objective reality and subjective experience. Our yearnings, our sorrows, and our confrontations with existence's enigmas all point toward one or the other. We marvel at nature's beauty and ponder our purpose. We oscillate between the pursuit of truth and the desire to understand nature, between the quest for meaning and the yearning to know ourselves, and between the relationships of truth and beauty, love and mortality, the finite and the infinite.

Religion and science, individually and especially together, are tools for knowing the world more intimately and loving it more deeply. Science helps us encounter reality on its own terms, while religion broadens and deepens the terms on which we meet ourselves and others. At their intersection, we may find a way to clarify and sanctify our experience, harmonising the objective reality of an indifferent universe with the subjective reality of being alive, grieving, and rejoicing. Both seek to reveal something unknown—about who we are and what this all means. Their shared blessing is a wakefulness to reality infused with wonder.

Religion might seem an unlikely portal into the fundamental nature of reality—into dark matter, the singularity, evolution, and entropy. Yet, it has a meaningful way of sneaking ideas into our consciousness through the back door of feeling, bypassing our ordinary ways of seeing and relating to the world. Through religion, other scales of time, space, and significance—the raw material of science—can enter more fully and faithfully into our worldview, returning us to our daily lives broadened and magnified. We can then approach our tasks and existential longings with renewed resilience and a passion for possibility.

Endless gratitude to my kindred spirit, Maria Popova...

 

7 October 2024

Service Project: Distributing Pre-Loved Glasses


On 6 October 2024, a heartwarming service project took place in the Kampung Kejau, Rancangan Petempatan Semula (RPS) Jernang, nestled under the lush green canopy of the region. This is a Semai Orang Asli settlement, located in the Sungkai area of the Batang Padang district in Perak and most of the friends there are followers of the Baha'i Faith.

The programme distributes pre-used spectacles to community members in need of visual aids. Its success relies entirely on the collaborative efforts of numerous kind-hearted individuals and organisations. 
Kind-hearted donors give their used spectacles a second lease on life by donating them, while the Association of British Women in Malaysia played a crucial role as a collecting partner. Volunteers from the Junior Youth group in Ara Bangsar meticulously cleaned the glasses, preparing them for their new owners. Optical chain MOG and M-Trend, at Tropicana City Mall and Bandar Kinrara Branch, offered their expertise by repairing and labeling the glasses' prescriptions.

As a result of these combined efforts, over 80 pairs of pre-used glasses were distributed to the Asli friends with visual needs in Kampung Kejau. The recipients were deeply grateful, and the volunteers from the Junior Youth group and their friends left with a sense of fulfillment, having witnessed the profound impact of their acts of service. This project demonstrated how collective goodwill and service can create ripples of positive change with enduring impacts.



Eloquently shared reflections by some of the volunteers...



13 September 2024

We choose to go to the moon...

 


Humanity is standing at a crossroads. Our choices in the next six years to 2030 will determine the fate of our planet and future generations – whether our future will be brighter or bleaker. Despite growing awareness and undeniable urgency, our collective efforts have fallen short.

The environmental crises we face, from climate change to biodiversity loss, are worsening rapidly. Yet, our actions remain fragmented and inadequate.  Social inequalities are deepening, and governance often fails to hold those who exploit these vulnerabilities accountable.

It is not that we are unaware of these crisis and inequities – they confront us daily.  Yet, many of us, especially those with resources and knowledge, seem preoccupied with our own lives and immediate concerns.  Have we forgotten that we are interconnected and interdependent, and that our actions have consequences? Or do we overlook the fact that the forces of nature are not easily controlled, unlike man-made market forces such as boom-and-bust cycles?

Restoring balance is not easy. It demands unwavering commitment, innovative thinking, and collaborative action. We need to move beyond rhetoric and embrace tangible, impactful solutions.

The slow progress we witness is a call to action. It is a reminder that we cannot afford complacency. We must accelerate our efforts, leveraging the power of technology, policy, and community engagement to drive meaningful change.

JFK said this in 1962: 

We choose to go to the moon. We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard, because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills, because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one which we intend to win, and the others, too. 

In 1969, eight years after Kennedy’s initial challenge, two American astronauts took “one giant leap for mankind”—walking on the Moon for the first time.

So I remain hopeful that together, we can turn the tide.  We can build an equitable, resilient future for all.  Our society’s three actors—the institutions, the community, and the individual—must act swiftly and more effectively. Each has a vital role.  Institutions should harness the strengths of many and allocate resources where they are most needed. Communities should foster an environment that encourages and supports individuals to do the right thing. Ultimately, it rests on the individuals, who, also as members of both communities and institutions, can influence activities on the ground and prompt positive change.

 

 


1 September 2024

From nasi lemak to nurturing nature: Celebrating National Day the Bangsar way


Merdeka hari raya
Negeri kita merdeka
Bersatu kita teguh
Maju jaya selamanya.

Independence, a precious prize
Malaysia's flag proudly flies
Unity and peace, our guiding light
A nation united, shining bright

In conjunction with Merdeka Day, a group of us organised a small gathering at the driveway of Hujjat's home along Jalan Limau Besar to foster stronger connection among the diverse multi-racial residents of Bangsar. From 8 am, neighbours streamed in with scrumptious Malaysian breakfast food to partake together.  It was so heartwarming to have residents who are new to the neighbourhood, young families and long time residents, all mingling together, having uplifting conversations and nurturing bonds of friendships... 

Hujjat's neighbourliness and generosity of spirit are truly exemplary.  Special shoutout of gratitude also to the residents of Limau Purut, Limau Besar and Limau Manis for funding the activities!




With stomachs filled, we then strolled over to Free Tree Society where Carolyn Lau educated us about the importance of reconnecting nature in our neighbourhoods and  the Pulai Trail Community Forest project.  We now know that we all must work together to conserve local biodiversity and connect fragmented green spaces in Bangsar.   Thank you Free Tree Society and Carolyn for also so generously encouraging us to take home native plants for us to grow in our own green spaces in the neighbourhood...  


All in all, a day fabulously spent 💞💞


22 July 2024

Hope in the Dark


I have, for the longest time, been enamoured by Maria Popova's writings - for decades she has been my source of joy, creativity and meaning.

Recently I stumbled upon her commentary on Rebecca Solnit's book of essays 'Hope in the Dark: Untold Histories, Wild Possibilities' which really uplifted me - and which needed to be read by more.  And as I cannot improve on perfection, here below are some extracts in Maria's own words:



In Maria's ever beautiful always perceptive prose...

The language in which we tell ourselves these stories matters tremendously, too, and no writer has weighed the complexities of sustaining hope in our times of readily available despair more thoughtfully and beautifully, nor with greater nuance, than Rebecca Solnit does in Hope in the Dark: Untold Histories, Wild Possibilities.  

Solnit — one of the most singular, civically significant, and poetically potent voices of our time, emanating echoes of Virginia Woolf’s luminous prose and Adrienne Rich’s unflinching political conviction — originally wrote these essays in 2003, six weeks after the start of Iraq war, in an effort to speak “directly to the inner life of the politics of the moment, to the emotions and preconceptions that underlie our political positions and engagements. ” Although the specific conditions of the day may have shifted, their undergirding causes and far-reaching consequences have only gained in relevance and urgency in the dozen years since. This slim book of tremendous potency is therefore, today more than ever, an indispensable ally to every thinking, feeling, civically conscious human being.

With an eye to such disheartening developments as climate change, growing income inequality, and the rise of Silicon Valley as a dehumanizing global superpower of automation, Solnit invites us to be equally present for the counterpoint:

Hope doesn’t mean denying these realities. It means facing them and addressing them by remembering what else the twenty-first century has brought, including the movements, heroes, and shifts in consciousness that address these things now.

Enumerating Edward Snowden, marriage equality, and Black Lives Matter among those, she adds: This has been a truly remarkable decade for movement-building, social change, and deep, profound shifts in ideas, perspective, and frameworks for broad parts of the population (and, of course, backlashes against all those things).

With great care, Solnit — whose mind remains the sharpest instrument of nuance I’ve encountered — maps the uneven terrain of our grounds for hope:

It’s important to say what hope is not: it is not the belief that everything was, is, or will be fine. The evidence is all around us of tremendous suffering and tremendous destruction. The hope I’m interested in is about broad perspectives with specific possibilities, ones that invite or demand that we act. It’s also not a sunny everything-is-getting-better narrative, though it may be a counter to the everything-is-getting-worse narrative. You could call it an account of complexities and uncertainties, with openings.

Solnit herself has written memorably about how we find ourselves by getting lost, and finding hope seems to necessitate a similar surrender to uncertainty. She captures this idea beautifully:

Hope locates itself in the premises that we don’t know what will happen and that in the spaciousness of uncertainty is room to act. When you recognize uncertainty, you recognize that you may be able to influence the outcomes — you alone or you in concert with a few dozen or several million others. Hope is an embrace of the unknown and the unknowable, an alternative to the certainty of both optimists and pessimists. Optimists think it will all be fine without our involvement; pessimists take the opposite position; both excuse themselves from acting. It’s the belief that what we do matters even though how and when it may matter, who and what it may impact, are not things we can know beforehand. We may not, in fact, know them afterward either, but they matter all the same, and history is full of people whose influence was most powerful after they were gone.

[...]

Amid a 24-hour news cycle that nurses us on the illusion of immediacy, this recognition of incremental progress and the long gestational period of consequences — something at the heart of every major scientific revolution that has changed our world — is perhaps our most essential yet most endangered wellspring of hope.

[...]

In a brilliant counterpoint to Malcolm Gladwell’s notoriously short-sighted view of social change, Solnit sprouts a mycological metaphor for this imperceptible, incremental buildup of influence and momentum:

After a rain mushrooms appear on the surface of the earth as if from nowhere. Many do so from a sometimes vast underground fungus that remains invisible and largely unknown. What we call mushrooms mycologists call the fruiting body of the larger, less visible fungus. Uprisings and revolutions are often considered to be spontaneous, but less visible long-term organizing and groundwork — or underground work — often laid the foundation. Changes in ideas and values also result from work done by writers, scholars, public intellectuals, social activists, and participants in social media. It seems insignificant or peripheral until very different outcomes emerge from transformed assumptions about who and what matters, who should be heard and believed, who has rights.

Ideas at first considered outrageous or ridiculous or extreme gradually become what people think they’ve always believed. How the transformation happened is rarely remembered, in part because it’s compromising: it recalls the mainstream when the mainstream was, say, rabidly homophobic or racist in a way it no longer is; and it recalls that power comes from the shadows and the margins, that our hope is in the dark around the edges, not the limelight of center stage. Our hope and often our power.

[…]

Change is rarely straightforward… Sometimes it’s as complex as chaos theory and as slow as evolution. Even things that seem to happen suddenly arise from deep roots in the past or from long-dormant seeds.

Invoking James Baldwin’s famous proclamation that “not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced,” Solnit writes: It’s important to emphasize that hope is only a beginning; it’s not a substitute for action, only a basis for it.

What often obscures our view of hope, she argues, is a kind of collective amnesia that lets us forget just how far we’ve come as we grow despondent over how far we have yet to go. She writes:

Amnesia leads to despair in many ways. The status quo would like you to believe it is immutable, inevitable, and invulnerable, and lack of memory of a dynamically changing world reinforces this view. In other words, when you don’t know how much things have changed, you don’t see that they are changing or that they can change.

This lack of a long view is perpetuated by the media, whose raw material — the very notion of “news” — divorces us from the continuity of life and keeps us fixated on the current moment in artificial isolate. Meanwhile, Solnit argues in a poignant parallel, such amnesia poisons and paralyzes our collective conscience by the same mechanism that depression poisons and paralyzes the private psyche — we come to believe that the acute pain of the present is all that will ever be and cease to believe that things will look up. She writes:

There’s a public equivalent to private depression, a sense that the nation or the society rather than the individual is stuck. Things don’t always change for the better, but they change, and we can play a role in that change if we act. Which is where hope comes in, and memory, the collective memory we call history.

dedicated rower, Solnit ends with the perfect metaphor:

You row forward looking back, and telling this history is part of helping people navigate toward the future. We need a litany, a rosary, a sutra, a mantra, a war chant for our victories. The past is set in daylight, and it can become a torch we can carry into the night that is the future.

Hence...have hope, and act...



27 January 2024

Movie Review - Pendatang

https://www.weekly-echo.com/pendatang-movie-takes-on-racial-divide-issue-with-courage-creative-brilliance/

Having heard much buzz in the local media, I recently watched the new local arthouse movie ‘Pendatang’.  The brainchild of writer Lim Boon Siang and director Ken Kin, it is described as a Malaysian diaspora-thriller movie on the triumph of humanity over racial extremism. Set in an imaginary future governed by a Segregation Act, this Cantonese-language film delves into a society where ethnic groups are strictly divided.

Truth be told, a sense of discomfort came over me from the very first minutes of the movie – not very different from how I felt when I watched the Academy Award movie ‘Parasite’.  Was it because I was affected by the mood that was cleverly created by the colours and the sounds? Or was it the title, which signals disunity and foreshadowing a bad ending?  The movie is grounded on our national history and extrapolates on one trajectory to a possible future. I found the ending ambiguous – is it intended to provide us the freedom to conclude the story as we desire, allowing us to project our own hopes onto it?  Perhaps it is also intended to underscore the importance of vigilance of our individual and collective behaviour as otherwise, we risk finding ourselves on a slippery slope…   

Last night, at our movie review session, we were joined by Samad Hassan, who was the post production supervisor, responsible for the technical quality from the shoot to the end and who ensured the director's vision was carried through in the technical process.  He shared with us the backstory to this movie, the funding and the budget (crowd funded and on a shoe string budget), the reason why it is available freely in youtube.  We now know that the location is near Ipoh; that Pendatang could refer to anyone and everyone in the plot.  And yes, the ending is deliberately open-ended.  He also informed that the movie participated in some regional movie festivals, and shared very interesting stats – besides the ASEAN region, a healthy number of viewers came from Australia, US and UK too.

The people behind this movie must be lauded for working on movies such as this on themes of unity, hope and courage as central messages.  The movie also reminded us that our children are born colour blind and recognised how societal influences can impact their perspective.  And how under the guise of community protection, these communities can implode destructively, clearly revealing that racism originates not in the skin but in the human mind.  This erroneous idea that humankind is somehow composed of separate and distinct races, peoples or castes, and that those sub-groups innately possess varying intellectual, moral, and/or physical capacities, which in turn justify different forms of treatment, have given rise to false concepts of superiority and inferiority among human populations.

Surely by now we realise that there is only one human race. We are a single people, inhabiting the planet Earth, one human family bound together in a common destiny, a single entity created from one same substance.  This guiding principle should serve as the fundamental premise for all our discussions and deliberations on the affairs of our community.

All in all, Team Pendatang, great job in crafting this cautionary tale intertwined with themes of hope and courage.




26 January 2024

Virtues Pick


Doing a Virtues Pick gives us an opportunity to choose a virtues card randomly (100 virtues cards to choose from), read it out loud and reflect on that virtue. We can reflect on how it might resonate or speak to us, how it might invite us to action, how we are challenged or how we have been using this virtue.

Everyone else listens to the person who selected a virtue with respective silence and full attention.  The listeners do not interrupt, give advice, or tell their own story. When the speaker finishes speaking, the listeners give the person a virtues acknowledgment, based on what they have talked about. Then the next person picks a virtues card and the process goes on.

Participants of the Virtues Pick group often remark on how much “lighter” they feel after listening, sharing and learning. They also enjoy the sense of unity they experience in the welcoming atmosphere. Here is what some of the members of the Virtues Pick group have to say about it:

  • I have enjoyed the Virtue Pick sessions. Focusing on  the virtue has helped me look for the good in others even more. It was positive and uplifting to have others recognize a virtue in me because I have low self-esteem. Our society often seems to pull others down. How wonderful it is to build others up in the Virtue Pick group.
  • Going to a Virtue Pick is an opportunity to give and receive reinforcement of positive goals with like-minded people. It is a calm and quiet hour in our busy days that restores our virtue goals.
  • Participating in a Virtues Pick group is a positive and uplifting occasion. It is a way to share and discuss ideals and values that make it possible for individuals and society to live in harmony. Whatever the faith, the Virtues Project is a way to encourage and promote admirable qualities. The world would be a better place if everyone were so trained and I recommend it without reservation.
  • Awareness is how I would describe the sessions,     awareness that there is a way to better oneself, a better understanding and a certain type of healing that can be achieved.
  • These virtues pick evenings help me to keep acquainted with the language of virtues and to recognize virtues when people are talking. One of the things I use it for is to encourage myself to speak in front of others and particularly to have to think of something on the spot - much as they would do in toastmasters.
  • I like to attend the Virtues Pick sessions as:
    • it provides a safe and supportive environment for reflecting on ways to appreciate others and improve myself 
    • it helps me become more familiar with the language of the virtues and the language provides the foundation for integrating virtues into the way one lives
    • it is a chance to be with other people who believe that a person’s character is their most important asset
    • it calms me and inspires hope
  • Virtues is a safe and positive time and space to meet and just stop for at least one hour and focus on the positive virtues in the world and the people in our community. It is a great opportunity for anyone who is needing to feel a stronger connection to the community. I look forward to it every week.


9 January 2024

The rights of the elderly

https://www.weekly-echo.com/the-rights-of-the-elderly/

https://www.thestar.com.my/opinion/letters/2024/01/11/we-can-do-more-for-our-elderly-population


Recently I came across an interesting new European strategy for older persons[1].  The strategy is supported by a guarantee for older people – similar to the European Youth Guarantee and the European Child Guarantee – which serve as the tool for implementing the strategy at the EU and national levels, and which enables EU funding to be used to finance programmes that support the elderly.

This is indeed a significant step forward, especially given the prevalent negligence of the needs of the elderly by communities and institutions everywhere.  In Malaysia, this is also not very different.  In fact, a dear friend, Lily Fu, made the movie ‘Meniti Senja'/'The Twilight Years'[2] in 2020 on this very social issue in Malaysia. Meniti Senja explored the alarming rise in the elderly being left to fend for themselves in aged care centres, removed from the comfort of homes they knew and children they raised, reflecting the breakdown of traditional family values in modern Malaysian society that marginalises the elderly. Recounting the stories of people who are mothers, fathers, grandparents – now slowly aging amidst strangers within the walls of a care home, this film revealed their heart -breaking stories of abuse, exploitation and abandonment. 

The prevailing narrative in the media around the elderly often focuses on the burden on strained pension and healthcare systems.  While it is critical to meet the specific care, resource, and health needs of the elderly, it is important not to reduce them to these needs. Even in the face of physical limitations, older members of society contribute to their communities in a myriad of ways. Furthermore, continued physical and mental activity not only improves health and well-being, it allows the wealth of knowledge and experience that this population has accumulated over their lifetimes to be harnessed for the common good. 

Some other narratives dwell on loneliness and societal isolation among the elderly.  When one retires from active employment, a sense of loneliness and isolation can set in when he/she is no longer regarded as having something of worth to contribute to others. And yet, the desire to contribute meaningfully to society, to have a purpose beyond one’s own needs, does not disappear because one has reached retirement age. We need to rethink of what it means to contribute to society—beyond narrowly attributing this to remunerated employment—fundamental to appreciating the elderly. 

Truth be told, many sectors including the government offer special discounts and privileges to the elderly, but surely, we can do more.  We need to remember that human rights and dignity do not diminish with age.  Older people should not be viewed as welfare recipients, but as citizens with the same rights to a full, non-discriminatory life as people of all ages.[3] Thought needs to be given to how intergenerational bonds can be strengthened throughout society, beginning at the grassroots of community life. For example, how can the elderly act as a source of experience and wisdom for younger generations? How can children and youth be of service to the elderly? How can spaces be created that foster connections between different generations?   There is a need for conversations, at all levels of society, on how we and the society can do better for our warga emas. 

A longer life expectancy is now a norm thanks to advances in material prosperity. A flourishing community is one which is intergenerational in nature and avoids treating elderly populations as a group separated from the rest of society. Our society would be for the better and stronger when we embrace every individual—regardless of age, and offer channels through which their innate desire to contribute meaningfully to their society can find practical expression[4].



[1] https://www.age-platform.eu/a-new-eu-strategy-for-older-persons-to-tackle-ageism-and-address-demographic-change/#:~:text=Among%20other%20suggestions%2C%20the%20EESC,European%20Year%20of%20Older%20People

[2] https://freedomfilm.my/festival/film/meniti-senja-the-twilight-years-2020/

[3] Dr Heidrun Mollenkopf, AGE President

[4] A European strategy for the elderly: The irreplaceable role of community life, Baha’i International Community

 


1 January 2024

Source of All Blessings by Brother David Steindl-Rast


Bless what there is, for being. Whatever it be, bless it because it exists; you need no other reason.


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with breath

In and out, in and out, ever-renewing us, ever anew, making us one with all who breathe the same air.

May this blessing overflow into a shared gratefulness, so that with one breath I may praise and celebrate life.


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with humility

That down-to-earth quality that has nothing in common with humiliation but makes us stand tall and acknowledge both the humus that feeds us and the stars to which we aspire. 

May I learn to practice, and to honor in others, this sparkling humility which is the dignity that we, as human beings cannot afford to lose. 


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with imprecision

With all that is vague, close but not quite; all that leaves room for the more specific, the more precise, and room for the imagination.

May I know when to be exact and when to move freely and blessed in the space so generously provided by all that is not perfectly defined, giving full scope to my dreams and my creativity.


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with memory

That sacred ingathering of the past that allows us to recognize faces, learn poems by heart, find our way back when we are lost, and bring forth old and new from its nearly inexhaustible store. 

May I know what to forget and what to retain and treasure, keeping in mind the smallest kindness shown to me and spreading its ripples for a long time to come.


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with change

In the seasons of the year, from snow to greening, flowering, fruiting and harvest, in the seasons of life, from childhood to youth, full ripeness, and saging. All living things keep changing. 

May I welcome change as a sacred opportunity to grow and savor in each unrepeatable moment’s fleetingness what IS beyond change.


Source of All Blessings, you bless us with departures

For they are a necessary part of our journey, necessary for the arriving. 

May I always be ready to take leave, always aware that every arrival is a prelude to departure, every birth a step towards dying, and may I thus taste the blessings of being fully present where I am. 


May blessings help to sharpen your taste for the gift of life in its immeasurable facets. May you grow ever more blessed, ever more able to bless.

By Brother David Steindl-Rast